I am in love💞, I am in love with a PSG Player💏….. Hey guys, welcome to my new episode of ranting like G.E.A will say
As usual, am hustling and saving to go see my love but the best part of living states away from my parent is that I get do whatever I like, eat whatever I want and go wherever I want to go to…. That is a little difficult in Baba B’s house🏘
All my life, I was pretty locked up in my house all in the name of protection but getting locked up didn’t stop uncles with horny jingle jangles from getting to me
Mind you, I am not saying I got raped as a child but do you guys remember the little girl from the song, Yeba, Uncle stop touching me. That was kind of my situation…. Or was it?
As a child, I remember that I love experiencing new things, so I am trying to remember if uncle stop touching was my situation or did I give in to experience something new, something different. I can’t seem to remember, so I am moving on
My point is that, demons👹 are outside and even more plentier (if that is a word) inside the house, only God can truly protect a child
So protecting a child is a good thing, afterall, it is the paramount duty of a parent after provision but there are times, kids should be allowed to see the world 🌍for what it is…a terrible place🌋 filled with bad and wicked people alike
Some people are good though but they are extremely few
Even apart from experiencing the world, been cooped up affects a child’s self-esteem😟. When I was finally allowed to stroll six steps outside my cage, I had issues making new friends, communicating with people. Standing in front of a crowd to address them is always a bad headache for me😓
I had inferiority issues….. Who am I deceiving? I still have it. Mind you, this only affected me, my siblings are better than I am
I usually wonder what my love’s childhood was like, I am sure he didn’t have to say Aunt, stop touching me or even Uncle, stop touching me. He is a fierce man
But I wonder what his mom is like, is she like mama B who blames others for her mistake? Mama B will pour water on the floor and she will blame you that is standing next to her the reason for the slippage
From what I see on the internet, I say she is a strict woman. Seeing the kind of hold she has on him, I say he is obedient. Mummy’s boys 👩👦are always obedient unlike mummy’s girls👩👧👧, we make Mama B shout daily. She literally shouts at the top of her voice every day and I am sure our neighbours have tagged my siblings and I as bad girls
I wonder if his parent’s mode of training children is for the kids to go through the hardship they went through. I have heard parents saying they work hard so that their kids do not go through the suffering they went through as a child
Reverse is the case in my family, my mom grow up cracking palm kernel nuts, they believe we need to experience it too to know how hard life is even though they never let us out of the house. They grew up fetching water from a stream 4 miles from their house and they think that is the best way to grow up responsively even though we have a water pumping machine in our well☹️
I grew up listening to this stories, stories that makes you feel like you are overprivileged but never will Baba B tell you the story of him smashing girls before he met Mama B or even when dating her or even after he married her and have like a battalion of babies with her
He will never tell you stories about his mistakes but make one mistake and he will recite the stories that will blow your mistakes out of proportion for you word for word without missing it up
I can still remember the day one of my sisters fried dodo (Ripe Plantain) and egg and Baba B was like, where have you gotten to that you are eating dodo and egg? I laughed so hard that day😂.
The first time he drank bottled water was when he was 30 and he believes the best time for us his kids to drink it is when we are in our 40s.
Like I said he believed and still believes, that is his thinking and not Mama B’s. When it comes to providing those kinds of privileges, Mama B is the best. The only thing Baba B gives to us freely without complaining is our education, he values it a lot
Obori, my immediate younger sister (I will tell you about her soon) chanted a word, 🗣 Eriwoooo and my parent believed that she is in a cult and they rushed down to her school to make sure she has not sold her bed. I know you are wondering how cult and bed are related together, so my thinking when Obori told me and I laughed till tears were coming out of my eyes🤣
The children of their close friend are wayward kids who are giving their parent problems and making them cry. One got knocked up, the other is an aristo babe, in short the whole children are following boys. Hearing this, Baba B and Mama B instantly believes the same thing will happen to us 🙄 (my sisters and I) and they started nagging us about morals with different kind of insults to follow.
And the list goes on and on, things that have no meaning, Mama B and Baba B takes it seriously. I guess you can call that protecting, even though it is going overboard😏
Times have changed and it is so painful 🙉 to see them find it extremely difficult to change with it. It does not affect me anymore, I am free….. partially free. I will totally free when I marry my love
Looking at the dynamics of my love’s family, I don’t think they will see me as someone good enough for their son. They will feel their son is better with someone else and won't accept me but hell will freeze before I let that stop me, we go die there together😜
Before I drop my pen, I want to say congratulations to GEA on the occasion of Dramacourt becoming one. Thank you for giving me the platform to rant like the crazy black lady you call me
And now I am dropping my pen✍️
I am in love💓, I am in love with a PSG Player 💏and this is me just thinking out loud🗣
Blackie
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